I was in the bus on my way home from my Night Shift...
I pondered upon the situation and try putting myself in their shoes...
I couldn't understand still...
Children are like the most precious gift from god...
You may say that i've not yet become a mother and i don't understand how it is
but my mom is a mother and no matter how bad situation goes,she never ever abuses her priviledge of being a parent...
same goes to my Dad...
But things doesn't works the same for this particular family...
The Scenario is:
A young parents with a 3 year old Kid...
The 3 yr old kid admitted in the A&E department,
Unconsious,pupils fixed and dilated,bruises all over.
Main diagnosis: Non-Accidental Child Abuse
The child looks really bad...
I was like holding back my tears when i saw the poor kid in that kind of condition...
I just couldn't understand the parents...
What 's with them...?Where is the Love..??
And whenever i see them along the corridor,
I feel like going up to them and just give a very disgusted look & curses...
I really tried my very best to understand their situation but it couldn't be that very bad right..??
I meant you always have the right to lay hands on your child if he misbehaves but there is always a limit right..??
where did all your patience gone to..??
This is really too much....
Now the child is like fighting for his life...
And i could sense that he will not be able to make it...
With all the Inotropes and ventilator support withdrawn,this poor kid will surely go...
Well at least he will be in heaven and not in the hell of his family...
I'm really sorry for my harsh words but i just couldn't help it..
It hurts me alot to see kids suffering and it hurts me more coz I'm very drawn to kids...
On a more positive note,
I feel so grateful to my parents for all the Love that they have showered me.
And i really think that these experiences being a nurse for the sick children will make me be a better parents in the future..
Insya Allah....
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