What happened?

Yes,I dont know what happened to him.
He seem to be so short-tempered now.
He gets mad really quickly.
I will still drive him mad even though i 'm polite in whatever way i could.
I understand that probably he gets irritated coz i asked him whether are we like meeting or not and then i decided to msg him the next day again saying that :

''since we r both busy,then we just forget abt meeting and i shall just keep those stuff and if ever i find that it is haunting me abt the past,i shall just discard it but for now i'm really fine.
those are just memories :) .''

That was what i msged him.
And then i got a reply from him which sounded so rude.
I was shocked.
I didnt know that my msg could cause him to be so unhappy.
To think that the words in the msg comes from him is really almost unexpected.
Coz i know him as a polite,courteous,patient and almost impossible to-get-angry person.

I just thought that if i could resolve the matter earlier it would be better right...
it wont have to be delayed..
And i never want to trouble anybody coz i know everyone is busy with work and all...
He is the one who initiated to meet to pass over the stuff personally to him.
I appreciate his concern though.
But look at the situation..
You are always busy and i'm on shiftwork...
If we ever gets to meet it would be like weeks later....
And i don't want to be always thinking abt the matter almost everyday before it could resolved.
I just thought that i should come to a conclusion and keep moving on.
Am i not doing the right actions..???

But if my good intentions doesn't meant good for him,
I really dont know.
My mom did ask abt all these when we were sahur-ing just now.
I couldn't contain myself when i told her abt what he replied to me.
I just burst into tears.
My mom reassured me that probably he said it out of anger.
My dad reprimanded me not to msg him anymore.
My dad was really serious and he really meant what he said.
I told that I have stopped msging him or emailing him for like 2 months already but he is the one who wants me to contact him back coz he wants to meet me personally to get the stuff.
My dad just warned me that from now on he don't want me to cry or said abt him anymore.
I just couldnt stop crying and i wasnt able to finish up my food.
I went to the kitchen,get 2 tabs of Panadol and then went to my room.
Looks like my flu and sore throat is not going to get any better.
I'm so done with all these.